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As Mother's Day approaches, I wanted to pay tribute to my mother who passed away on April 21, 2016. As my sister stated in her eulogy, "April 21, 2016. Queen Elizabeth turned 90. Prince Died. My mother also passed away. . . . SHE WAS OUR VERY OWN ROYALTY."

My Mother loved life. She was smart, quick witted and creative. I wondered how she could have out-smarted Parkinson's Disease if she knew how. I am saddened that Parkinson's Disease has impaired her ability to enjoy life and express herself.

My Mother had dreams for each of her children. I am not sure what she has planned for me. I know she was satisfied with the path I have taken and the person I have become.

My Mother was a spirited competitor in every aspect of her life. I have not seen her backed down from any failures even right before Parkinson's took her life. I hope I will have the same strength, courage and determination when my time comes.

My Mother was an athletic. I remember her teaching me to swim and her gracefulness in the pool. I have taught my children to love swimming because of her. This past weekend as I watch my daughter compete at a swim meet, I wished Parkinson's disease had never trapped her graceful athletism.

My Mother struggled with her role in the traditional Taiwanese society. I deeply believe that she was born in the wrong century. I wondered what she could have achieved today if she was given the opportunity to exert the same competiveness and determination to fight for what she believed in.

My Mother wanted me to marry a man but I married a woman instead. Yet she had graciously accepted and loved my children unconditionally. And I am thankful for her kindness and love.

I am proud of the what I learned from you - the fierce competitiveness, the determination to succeed, the will to fight for what we believe in and how to show love and kindness. I wish my children would have known you better. I am proud to call you my Mother, and I hope I can continue to make you proud.